Wednesday 4 September 2013

The Family with differences

If there exists God, then it is incarnated in the form of family. There was a time when family tree used to be seen. But now the tree has shed its leaves and each leaf is preparing to grow into an individual tree. We live in an ever-connected-yet-unconnected-world. In this unique era, those who don't run with time are left behind. And now the families fall under the same category. The dissolution of a joint family into a single family could be of many reasons. May be a small family has a lot of internal disputes to settle. May be the sibling are just not mature enough. May be the elders just can't tolerate each other. Or may be a bad influence of bloody-money. The reasons are many and a single reason is more than enough. But even then the family of '4-members' faces more problems. The sibling at their adolescence fights for none. The peer pressure on the individuals disconnect them with their family and themselves too. They shed their own dream to grow in the group. Thus dissolving the surrounding. Their love adds fuel to this difference and then they shed themselves from this tree. Of all the dreams that you pursue for, make sure the priority is to make a HOME and not HOUSE like others in your street. Do remember, when everyone was with you they were smiling for you, when no-one will be there for you to support, they will. They will be ready for any PRICE  provided you VALUE them. Solitude never helps. Family does. Bless yourself and your family too.